When we lose autonomy over ourselves, we become internally unbalanced. When others silence our voice, we cannot directly communicate, set boundaries, or restore internal order. So, instead of dealing with the real conflict, we war within ourselves. Luckily, we don't have to live in an unbalanced state. We can achieve restoration, and we can be at peace with ourselves. But first we must understand the forces tipping the scale...
Rooted in dignity, we can act with integrity. Integrity is more than doing the "right" thing when no one is watching. Integrity is transparency, authenticity. It is owning our flaws. It is inspecting ourselves, our behaviors, our motives. Integrity is acting from a place of personal dignity, acting with respect to the dignity of others. Integrity is seeing others have worth simply because they ARE.
The ruins / Staining hearts / And Crumbling Covenants
I once taught writing. Writing in theory and writing in practice are very different things. I'm certainly no linguist like Shakespeare. Shucks, I wouldn't pretend to possess an ounce of Stephen King's I-crank-out-a-novel-a-week talent. But as Robin Williams (as Professor... Continue Reading →